On the silver screen, the moment often is portrayed as just that, a moment – an epiphany that happens in a flash, Archimedes style.

But when most people make big changes in their lives, they consider it over several weeks or months. The idea begins as an inkling, a nagging sense that something isn’t right or could be improved. Then it grows into a something approaching a plan, missing a few details but pointing the way to change. Read more…